Dating advice when to say i love you

17-Oct-2019 02:31

I would generally say that it’s better for the guy to say it to you first.

The reason being is that to us, the saying of it isn’t a big deal in it of itself.

We know that saying it, to some extent, is a demonstration of our commitment to her and that we’re not going anywhere. If you say it first, then it’s like you’re forcing that implied commitment, in a way.

And even if a guy does love you, he will feel to an extent that he’s being pressured.

In other words, to the grand majority of guys, he’s happy if the relationship is good. That’s not to say that guys don’t care, it’s just that if the relationship is going well in every way, we’re pretty much satisfied.

The reason we say, “I love you,” to a woman is because we know it matters to her.

It'll feel natural as you catch him in one of the most relaxed, intimate, cozy moments possible.

If the woman makes this “big move” first, does it make a guy squirm…or run?You already know the way to a man's heart is through his stomach …and when he asks what the occasion is, you can reply, "Oh, just because I love you! and author of Emotional Fitness for Couples; Diana Kirschner, Ph. and CEO of Lovein90days.com" title="" src="data:image/gif;base64, R0l GODlh AQABAIAAAAAAAP///y H5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://hips.hearstapps.com/cos.h-cdn.co/assets/cm/14/25/539fc2570a6ba_-_cos-20-couple-in-love-de-mscn.jpg?When he's in the bathroom, grab his phone and set an alarm for the next day that pops up to say, "Hey, you. If there's a new bar or restaurant he wants to try, surprise him with a date night to the place one evening, on you.That's pretty much his idea of a grand gesture — kind of like if he showed up at your door with wine, chocolates, flowers and a small puppy — so it'll signal to him that you care on that next level.

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