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18-Aug-2019 11:50

For me, this was because of the dog my ex and his ex-wife used to share.

Every other week, they would hand-off the dog like it was a small child, during which she and I would make polite but totally forced small talk in the apartment they once shared together. If there are actual kids involved in this former union, well that's an entire — and far more complex —story.

Their baby has been hurt, and they're going to be extra protective him/her for, well, a long long while.

It may take them a little longer to warm up to you, but if you've met them at all, you're clearly on the right path. Friends are family, and oftentimes they can be even more protective over a hurt friend because they received the unedited version of how this divorce went down (let's be honest, often parents don't get the full play-by-play for their own good.).

Strategic reasons not to date before divorce Emotions are raw during a divorce.

When you start seeing someone else, it is like rubbing salt into your husband's wounds.

I wasn't harsh or negative, but I shared my opinions frankly. The guy the hostess was dating at the time was ripped from the pages of "Sensitive Over 50 Guys in the 21st Century." He was fawning, gushing, practically springing leaks -- all his advice and anecdotes were sandwiched between ravings about how wonderful his girlfriend (the hostess) was.

It was such an over-the-top performance that I was genuinely physically uncomfortable each time he spoke.

The older we get, the more inevitable it's going to be we date people who already have a marriage behind their belt.

If I had been wired, I'm sure my blood pressure would have been shown to spike every time he opened his mouth. They almost literally swooned at the guy's lavish praise for his main squeeze. He turned out not to be so sensitive but rather a "narcissist" -- her word.

His comments about dating weren't exactly bolts of wisdom worthy of interrupting our regularly scheduled programming, but they were okay, pretty much what one would predict from a guy so clearly eager to score points -- and perhaps dates -- from his listeners.

By Tracy Achen If you are thinking about dating during divorce ... You may think that you are free to start a new relationship once the decision is made to separate or divorce.

But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.

The older we get, the more inevitable it's going to be we date people who already have a marriage behind their belt.

If I had been wired, I'm sure my blood pressure would have been shown to spike every time he opened his mouth. They almost literally swooned at the guy's lavish praise for his main squeeze. He turned out not to be so sensitive but rather a "narcissist" -- her word.

His comments about dating weren't exactly bolts of wisdom worthy of interrupting our regularly scheduled programming, but they were okay, pretty much what one would predict from a guy so clearly eager to score points -- and perhaps dates -- from his listeners.

By Tracy Achen If you are thinking about dating during divorce ... You may think that you are free to start a new relationship once the decision is made to separate or divorce.

But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.

About three weeks later, I called the dating coach hostess on a business matter.