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19-Jul-2019 11:58

Being cautious can go a long way in preventing injury. A friend of mine shared a story from one of her previous churches. Use a screen name that you do not use elsewhere (IM, Facebook, bank account, etc).

For those considering online dating, I have this advice to help curb some of the risk. Do not (I repeat: do not) go into this in some Jonah-like attempt to wiggle your way out of where God has you right now. The church had a significant singles ministry and many were involved in online dating.

This brings us to the biggest con of online anything: The bad guys lie.

The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children says that 1 in 5 children are sexually solicited online.

Jesus said no one can be his disciple unless they take up their cross and follow him. If you know what you are looking for the way I have tried to describe it, I would think you could rule out a lot of losers by using the Internet.

Pro: For someone immersed in a career or ministry, online dating can open up opportunities that normally would not exist. There is no “Well, I plan on dating someone for six years while I finish my Star Wars collection (sorry, guys), master the art of cooking Ramen, and move out of my mom’s basement; then, maybe I will consider marriage.” For the most part, the people on dating sites want to be married—soon. However, for every good, godly guy online, there is a bad one.

They met, married, and had children with stellar men of God that honestly made me step back and ask, “How were these guys still single!? There is no background check verifying all members of Site A are top-quality men (or women for that matter). Tell people where you are going and what your plans are.

I would consider myself a decent Christian woman who loves the Lord, so surely there could be decent Christian men on there as well, but not all of them are. Give them whatever information you have just in case.

Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church.

And husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church and gave himself for her.

Pro: For someone immersed in a career or ministry, online dating can open up opportunities that normally would not exist. There is no “Well, I plan on dating someone for six years while I finish my Star Wars collection (sorry, guys), master the art of cooking Ramen, and move out of my mom’s basement; then, maybe I will consider marriage.” For the most part, the people on dating sites want to be married—soon. However, for every good, godly guy online, there is a bad one.

They met, married, and had children with stellar men of God that honestly made me step back and ask, “How were these guys still single!? There is no background check verifying all members of Site A are top-quality men (or women for that matter). Tell people where you are going and what your plans are.

I would consider myself a decent Christian woman who loves the Lord, so surely there could be decent Christian men on there as well, but not all of them are. Give them whatever information you have just in case.

Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the Church.

And husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the Church and gave himself for her.

A podcast listener named Nathan writes in to ask: “Is online Christian dating a good way to meet a future spouse if you don’t meet anyone through your church family?